Let’s set a story first to understand the matter. The scene is between a mother and a child. The child is studying at local kids play school and the mother is a homemaker. Preschooler : Mom, I want to go upstairs to play with my cousins. Can I? Mother : No, you will get slipped from the stairs. Preschooler : I know how to climb stairs. You don’t have to worry. Mother : I told you NO. Preschooler : No, I will go. Otherwise, I will not talk to you. Mother : Okay, go! (in a defeated tone) But be careful. Why mother submitted to his wish? Because she doesn’t want to waste her energy into a pointless fight. If she has limited her child’s wish, she must have faced violent behavior from the kid. Young kids, even adults, don’t want their wishes to be suppressed. They either rebel or depress against the imposed restrictions. Sometimes, they even become numb or unresponsive to the teachings of their parents. All this happens when parents follow spanking, chiding, and
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